Puppyplaypride Pup Negotiation Form
All credits for this form goes to puppyplaypride.com,
and those names listed within the form below.
Please note that as of publishing this web-page, the domain puppyplaypride.com
is no longer active including the emails listed below. This document has
been copied for historical records and Cap City Pups claims no credit in
it’s creation.
About the Puppy
Play Negotiation Form
You are looking at the first draft of the Puppy Play Negotiation Form.
The hope is that this form can be used as a tool by all puppies and
trainers to aid in communicating desires and expectations. Because this
is intended to help all puppy players, we're really like your feedback.
Please look and use this form. Then write to us and tell us what else
we need to include, what should be presented differently, and anything
else we could do to make this a better tool for you.
You can reach us at MaePuppy@PuppyPlayPride.com and scamp@PuppyPlayPride.com.
Thanks in advance for your feedback. If you have compliments, we like
those too. :)
How to use the Puppy Play Negotiation Form
We all have our one ideas about what makes a really great puppy play
scene or lifestyle. The problem is we often have trouble communicating
our desires and expectations to the people we play with. To help, think
of your ideal puppy play scene. Then print this form. Finally fill it
out based on that scene and share the results with your play partner.
The form is intended to be completed by the person playing the puppy
role, but it may also be helpful for a trainer to fill it out with his/her
own desires and expectations.
It's ok, too, if you have multiple ideal scenes. Just complete an additional
form for each.
Name
What do you want to be called as a pup?
What nicknames are OK?
Pup Personality
Pup Age:
• Young puppy
• Older puppy
• Full-grown dog
• Older dog
Training Level:
• Untrained
• Wild
• Some training (sit, stay, etc.)
• Moderate training (shake, speak, roll
over, etc.)
• Highly trained (guard, attack, etc.)
• Human service abilities (open door,
conversant)
Are you:
• Aggressive
• Dominant
• Protective
• Helpful
• Nurturing
• Submissive
• Feisty
• Playful
• Loyal
• Territorial
• Obedient / Disobedient
• Herding
Partner Role
• No partner
• Owner (casual)
• Breeder
• Trainer
• Veterinarian
• Groomer
• Police / Military Handler
• Family (Mommy, Daddy, etc.)
• Pack Leader
• Pack Member(s)
Psychology
Will you take on a puppy headspace?
Do you need a cue to enter puppy space? If so, describe. (e.g. Using
your puppy name, tossing a ball.)
Do you need to be “forced” into being a puppy? If so, under what circumstances?
(Physical, mind control, etc.)
Do you need anything special care to be brought out of puppy space and/or
after being brought out of puppy space? If so, describe. (e.g. What
forms of aftercare do you need?)
When in puppy space do you require:
• Humiliation
• Praise
• Discipline / Correction
• Punishment
• Ambivalence
• Companionship
Exposure:
• Public Play
• Private Play
• Discrete
• Kink Events
What types of discipline and/or humiliation are NOT ok?
Can your partner ask you to try new things while you are in the puppy
role?
What can and can't they ask?
Gender Identification
This varies so much from person to person, that it might be helpful
to write your expectations here. Would you like to be treated as a boy
pup or a girl pup? What does this mean to you?
Breed
What breed are you?
• Known breed (Beagle, Dalmatian, Spaniel,
Retriever, etc.)
• Unknown breed
• Wild Breed (Wolf, Fox, Hyena, etc.)
• Fanciful breed (Cerberus, Hell Hound,
Werewolf)
Pup Speech
As a pup will you:
• Whimper
• Howl
• Bark
• Growl
• Partial Human Speech (“Need pup master?”,
Scooby voice)
• Full Human Speech (“How may I serve
you tonight, master?”)
Gear
What kind of gear will you wear? Make a note next to items to indicate
that you own it or it needs to be provided for you.
Hoods:
• Full puppy face
• Puppy ears
• Dog teeth
• Muzzle
• Basic leather hood
• None
Mits:
• Fist mitts
• Foot mitts
• Locking mitts
• Paw shaped
• Boots
• None
Knee Pads:
• Yes for play on multiple surfaces
• No for play on mats or thick carpet
Tail End:
• Belt tail
• Butt plug tail
• Butt plug
Restraints:
• Bondage harness
• Leg restraints (prevent standing)
• Collar
• Leash
Genitals:
• Uncovered
• Jock strap
• Chastity Belt
• Underwear
Clothing:
• Rubber
• Leather
• Vinyl/Plastic
• Denim
• Nude
• Fur
• Fur Suit
• Casual
Other:
Toys and Props
BDSM
• Spanking/Corporal
• Bondage
• Electrical
• Sensation Play
• Impact
• Clips, Clamps, and Pinchy Things
Sex Toys:
• Dildos
• Vibrators
Puppy Toys
• Balls (tennis, baseball, wiffle ball, etc.)
• Newspaper
• Chew Toys
• Tug of War Toys
• Windup Toys to Chase
• Squeak Toys
• Water / Food Dish
• Puppy Bed
• Puppy Cage/Kennel
Food:
• Regular Human Food
• Chili / Chunky Soup / Spam
• Leftovers / Doggie Bag
• Cookies (Scooby Snacks, etc.)
• Jerky
Other:
Commands
What commands will you understand / obey?
Feedback
• Good
• Bad
• No
Questions:
• Go out?
• Hungry?
• Thirsty?
• Walk?
Directions:
• Stay
• Come
• Go
• Sit Up
• Down
• Left
• Right
• Heel
• Hurry
Fetch / Play Commands:
• Shake
• Beg
• Play Dead
• Fetch
• Catch
• Roll
• Kiss
• Speak
• Hold
• Get
• Take
• Bring
• Drop
Guard Dog \ Special Commands:
• Look
• Watch
• Guard
• Bark
• Growl
• Quiet
• Attack
• Show/Present
Other:
Toileting
How will your toileting needs be handled as a pup?
• Break scene and use the toilet as human
• Paper training
• Outdoors
• Anywhere
• Diapers
• Aim for the toilet
• Enemas
• Butt Plugs
How should toileting be handled differently for urination as opposed
to defecation? (e.g. Urinate outside but break scene to defecate in
a toilet.)
Safewords:
Safeword or gesture for stop:
Safeword or gesture for slow down:
Credit
Obviously we did not create the concept of a negotiation form. We were
inspired, in part, by all the more general negotiation forms we've seen
in the BDSM world. In these, puppy play is usually a single line item.
There are dozens of such forms, so we can't give credit to any particular
one.
The idea for a more specific form has it's roots in the area of age
play. In particular we were inspired by the work of Little Girl Lost
and her age play negotiation form, which can be found here. Her main
web site also has many excellent works on the subjects of role play
in general and age play in particular.
Finally, we wish to give you credit too. When you submit feedback that
we include in the Puppy Play Negotiation Form, we'll give you credit
and show our thanks right here.
Thanks to Juliana Shines of the Atlanta Leather Puppies and Ponies Yahoo
Group. She suggested adding information about needing a cue to enter
pup space.
Thanks to Mako Allen of The Ghidrah for the suggestion to add a section
for toileting.
Thanks to yofie of Human Fauna for the suggestion to add whether or
not a pup can be asked to try new things to the psycology section.
Thanks to Mater Roy of the PupOut Yahoo Group for the suggestion to
add a what is needed when coming out of puppy space.
Derivatives
Skyler of Human Fauna has done a good job of creating a negotiation
form for kitty play based on this form.
Cap-City Pups takes no credit for this document.